Recommended Reading

Books

Attachment

• Attached: the New Science of Adult Attachment and How it Can Help You Find—and Keep— Love

• Anxiously Attached

• Insecure in Love

• Love Sense

Difficult Parents & Childhood Emotional Neglect

• Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents

• Self Care for the Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents

• Will I Ever Be Good Enough?: Healing the Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers

• Running on Empty: Overcome Your Childhood Emotional Neglect

• Running on Empty No More

Grief

• It’s OK That You’re Not OK

• The Grief Recovery Handbook

• There is No Good Card For This: What to Say and Do Life Scary, Awful, and Unfair to the People You Love

Highly Sensitive Person

• The Highly Sensitive Person

• The Highly Sensitive Person’s Workbook

• Find Your Strength: A Workbook for the Highly Sensitive Person

Introversion & Social Anxiety

• Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking

• How to Be Yourself

• Fear and Other Uninvited Guests

Parenting

• How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk

• Good Inside

• The Blessing of a Skinned Knee

Personal Growth

• I’m Working on it in Therapy: How to Get the Most Out of Psychotherapy

• The Vital Spark

• The Big Leap: Conquer Your Hidden Fear and Take Life to the Next Level

• Daring Greatly

• The Way of Integrity

Romantic Relationships

• The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work

• In Sync With the Opposite Sex

• What Makes Love Last?

• Hold Me Tight

• Calling in “The One”

Self Compassion

• Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself

• The Undervalued Self

• Taming Your Outer Child: Overcoming Self-Sabotage and Healing from Abandonment

Sex & Sexuality

• Come As You Are

• Mating in Captivity

• Unf*ck Your Intimacy

• Love Worth Making: How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Long-Lasting Relationship

• The Velvet Rage: Overcoming the Pain of Growing Up Gay in a Straight Man’s World

Sobriety & Alcohol Moderation

• This Naked Mind

• The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober

• Sober Curious

• Quit Like a Woman

Therapy & Being a Therapist

• The Gift of Therapy

• Letters to a Young Therapist

• The Making of a Therapist

• Doing Psychotherapy

• Sometimes Therapy is Awkward

Articles

• Real Psychotherapy Has to Happen at Least Once a Week

• The Efficacy of Psychodynamic Psychotherapy

• How to Find a Good Therapist

• Considering the Question of Whether Therapy is Still Helpful When You’re Not in Crisis

• The Space In-Between: Exploring Clients’ Relationship with Alcohol

• What Is This Feeling? Anticipatory Grief and Other New Pandemic-Related Emotions

• Healing and Growing Beyond Survivor’s Guilt

• Childhood Emotional Neglect: Why You Have it But Your Siblings Don’t

• The Courage Not to Know

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